Mediation Topics
This is a partial list to give you an idea of the types of issues that are often covered during mediation. Make a note of those that are important to you and share them with your mediator.
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Financial Topics
These topics are a checklist of what may be discussed during mediation. Every agreement is different and is customized to address the unique issues of each spouse and ensure the agreement is fair and equitable.
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Real Estate
What to do with the marital home
transfer, sell, co-own
Rental properties, vacation homes
Asset division
Investment accounts, checking/savings
Retirement assets, IRA’s and Pensions
Collections and personal property
Executive compensation
Stock options and grants
Deferred compensation
Business interests
Personal property such as cars and boats.
Debt
Division and management
Reduction strategies
Income Support
Child Support
Spousal Support
Expense Sharing
Other
Health care coverage
Life insurance
Wills, trust changes
Tax Efficient Transfers
Pension – division and handling
Pension Valuation
Parenting Topics
Parenting agreements can be very detailed or very basic. But most judges will expect a written parenting plan if there are minor children.
The topics below do not need to be included in every plan. But the more detail the better on living arrangements, expense sharing, and decision making to avoid future disagreements.
Living arrangements
Parenting time and schedule
Pickup and drop offs
Out-of-state travel
Moving and relocations
Vacation schedule and holidays
Special occasions and family events
Child Development and Growth
Supporting unique needs
Agreed upon child caretakers
Outside activities
Staying connected with family members
Managing parental disagreements
School events and conferences
School contact and communication
Financial
Child support and expense sharing
Clothing and daily needs
Making major expense decisions (camp, braces, trips)
Education agreements such as college, private school
Medical
Handling medical issues and emergencies
Health insurance coverage and co-pays
Other
Handling new parental relationships
Religious upbringing
Behavioral agreements – alcohol, drugs, language, discipline